Have some sad news to share. I did my blood work on Monday and it was a negative so keeping our fingers and toes crossed, i went back on wednesday hoping for a better result. But sill a no:( Pretty bummed out this week. I felt guilty and started thinking what did i do wrong? I know i took it easy, i know i didn't carry around the kids or laundry or even the grocery. I ate healthy and got plenty of rest?? So what went wrong...
My heart was hurting the most for the IPs, feeling bad and getting my self down about it isn't helping anyone. So I'm done. It wasn't meant to happen and this next time it will work! I've been in contact with GG and the IPs and we all are going to move forward as soon as possible. I will have to wait and hear when that time will be after they get into contact with the egg donor. I guess complaining about starting the shots all over again isn't worth it. I don't mind, as long as I get pregnant!! I've read a ton of blogs and chatted with other surrogates this week, the support is amazing:)
Hang in there. It will happen when it's meant to happen. Be strong...and lean on that amazing Hubby of yours. :) All the best for the next round.
ReplyDeletethank you Andrea!
ReplyDeleteI agree with Andrea! I know it's easier said than done, but dont beat yourself up over these results, Im sure you didnt do anything wrong. So chin up and think positive thoughts! It will happen for you!
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How are things? I was thinking about you and your journey today. :) Look on the bright side ;) Hopefully my beginning process moves along quickly--our hopes is to start injections in January. It would be neat to go through this together with you!! :) Take care and enjoy the rest of your week. I'm off to Vegas as a last hoorah before things get crazy around here, ha!
ReplyDeleteHey! yes, things are a lot better now. After talking more with the agency and the IPs, we've all decided to move forward asap. They are working with the egg donor now to see how soon we can do this. So, might be a chance we will be transferring the same month:)
ReplyDeleteVegas! Fun:) Looking forward to hearing about it! Enjoy, you deserve it!
Also Andrea, do you do anything on Facebook? There are a lot of surrogacy groups on that...
ReplyDeleteand Courto- Thank you:)
Yes, I'm on Facebook. I've found a few groups, but the ones that I have come across don't seem to be too active/current.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.facebook.com/surrogacyspotlight
ReplyDeletehttp://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=43534981178
those are two good ones, if you aren't already in them.
and heres a link to mine.
http://www.facebook.com/amy.marmolejo
i check my fb more than i do my blog..as of right now. I will prob be more active on my blog once i'm preggo and have more to share.
Thanks! I'll check them out. :) ....and I just sent you a friend request!
ReplyDeletefound you on Andrea's site and will follow you. Hang in there and know it will happen when the time is right!!! Sounds like you are an amazing person, mommy and wife!!! :) Good luck!
ReplyDeleteThank you! Just caught up on your blog, I will follow as well:)
ReplyDeleteHi everyone my name is Christine and I had my 5day embryo transfer last Thursday in Belgium where I am still currently until this Wed. I will have blood work done this Thursday to see if I am pregnant. The IP's want to do a pregnancy test tomorrow morning so I told them of course if they wanted to. I hope that I am pregnant for the family., they are such a lovely family with two children already :)
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